All,
I was at the trap club this past Sunday doing my duty in the form of a 'work day'. During this 'work time' you just do whatever needs to be done, which includes coaching new shooters to keep them safe and teach them something about trap shooting.
It was cold and rainy so almost everyone was in the warm clubhouse while waiting their turn to shoot. I noticed a father and young daughter standing by the shotgun rack, he had his hand on a Winchester model 12, which I presumed to be his. This girl was about the same age as my daughter, so I paid special attention. Her dad was coaching her on what to expect when their squad is called to shoot. He went to the counter and purchased 12ga 1oz 1350fps loads and handed them to her. She had never fired a shotgun and couldn't be more than 80 pounds dripping wet. I knew if she fired those loads that, more than likely, she would never want to shoot again.
I happened to have my 12 year old daughter's shotgun and her very light loads in the car. I approached the gentleman and explained that I have a daughter about his daughter's age and that if he didn't mind I would like to talk about a possibly better approach to introduce shooting to her. He was very willing, so I explained that I had a shotgun with a much shorter stock and *much* lighter loads that I would let them use. He agreed, so I retrieved the shotgun and loads from the car. We covered the operation of the 870 Remington and practiced shouldering it a couple times.
Her squad was called to shoot, so out into the cold rain we went. I gave a couple tips on safety, but mostly let her dad do the coaching. When the squad was done she was smiling and she even hit 2 targets!! If that doesn't give you a warm-and-fuzzy, then nothing will!
My hope is that everyone will realize fifteen minutes of your time can help welcome a new shooter into the sport, instead of being turned off by their first shooting experience.
Wayne